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Difficult Surprises of Obstestric Fistula Treatment

  Undergoing a fistula reconstructive surgery and healing are two different things. I realised one surgery doesn’t always guarantee healing. When I was newly admitted to the hospital one woman cried bitterly during the ward round when she was told to go home and come back after two months for another surgery. This was her second surgery and the leaking urine had not stopped. She painfully asked me how she would go back home after two months of hospitalization and still leaking urine yet people knew she came for treatment? She struggled to go back home to be a burden to his brother since she was separated from her husband after she lost her baby and developed a fistula. She also closed her business due to fistula. It was better for her to stay in the hospital where she is assured of three meals and two snacks a day, diapers and she doesn’t need to strain herself or bother people to take care of her.  Most women who undergo surgery to deal with leaking urine stay with one, ...

SUPERNATURAL CHILDBIRTH

IS CAESAREAN SECTION( CS) A SUPERNATURAL CHILDBIRTH? In my last blog, I had promised to give a few suggestions on how to keep our marriage vows for better for worse, I hope to do this next week Thursday on our wedding anniversary ☺ . Before then we can look at another aspect of, for better for worse which is childbirth. This is a sensitive area that tests our marriage vows. Many of us get in marriage hoping to get children, if not us at least our relatives and friends. A few months into the marriage, we will sense that expectation from our African community. As we wait on we come to attest to the fact the entire conception, pregnancy, labour, and childbirth process takes the hand of God to finally be able to hold a baby.   When the baby finally comes we praise God and want to share the good news with family and friends. The first question is likely to be, “is it a boy or girl?” If by any chance you had another baby of the same sex you may hear encouraging comments lik...